खम्मा घणी Khamma ghani, a Rajasthani welcome
A round mud-walled house with a thatched roof in a desert village near Khuri
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Rural homestays with families, the Rajasthan between the cities

Our mother's family comes from a village in Shekhawati, and every winter of our childhood we were sent there to be made useful. We milked a buffalo badly, ate bajra rotis straight off the fire and slept on the roof under more stars than Jaipur ever showed us. That is the Rajasthan we want our guests to meet.

What a village stay means here

About three in four Rajasthanis live in villages, yet most visitors only see them through a car window. A night in one changes the whole journey.

In a village, the day is built around water, animals and light. Women are up before dawn to fetch water and light the chulha, the clay stove. Men take the cattle out. By dark the lanes are empty and the stars are out. You fall into that rhythm within a day.

Three kinds of stay: a simple room with a farming or herding family, a night in a desert hamlet of mud-walled huts, or a family-run country fort or rawla where the household still lives upstairs.

Facts to know
Kinds of stay
Village homes, desert hamlets, family country houses
Typical length
One or two nights
Group size
Usually just your party
Food
Home-cooked, mostly vegetarian
Pay
Direct to the host family
  • What they share: a real family, a working village outside the gate and time to sit still.
  • What they are not: staged villages built for tourists, or visits where people are photographed and left behind.
  • Why it matters: village Rajasthan is where the crafts, the music, the food and the faith of the state are made. The cities show the results. The villages show the people.
  • How it fits a journey: most guests add one or two village nights between cities, often on the Village Rajasthan journey, which strings country houses and farms across four old regions.

The stays we arrange, from simple to grand

There is no single kind of village stay. These are the ones we use, with the honest difference between them.
Fields of yellow mustard in flower in the Rajasthani countryside
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A room in a farming family's home

What it is: a clean, simple room in the house of a family we know, usually in Shekhawati, Marwar or the hills of Mewar.

  • Comfort: a proper bed, fresh bedding and a bathroom we have checked. Hot water may come in a bucket.
  • The pleasure: cooking with the women of the house, walking the fields with the men, and dinner by the fire.
  • Who it suits: curious, flexible travellers happy to trade polish for warmth.

A desert hamlet near Khuri

Where: around Khuri, about 45 kilometres south-west of Jaisalmer, among low dunes and khejri trees.

  • The houses: round mud-walled huts with thatched roofs, cool by day and warm at night, painted with white patterns on the walls.
  • The evening: a walk to the dunes at sunset, a shepherd bringing his flock home, and a sky with almost no lights for miles.
  • Honest note: Khuri also has simple camps of mixed quality. We stay only with families we trust.

A family country house, a rawla or garh

What it is: the fort or rawla of a noble family, turned into a heritage hotel and still lived in, such as Rohet Garh, Rawla Narlai or Deogarh Mahal.

  • Comfort: real hotel standards, with pools, good kitchens and proper bathrooms.
  • The village link: the estate and its villages have known each other for centuries. Walk out of the gate and you are in the lanes.
  • Read more: our piece on the rawla and the thikana explains the old estates.

A community-run village in Kutch

Where: Hodka, a village of bhungas, round mud houses with conical thatched roofs, on the Banni grassland of Kutch.

  • Who runs it: Shaam-e-Sarhad, a village resort run by the community itself.
  • The stay: bhungas and tents, village food and the embroidery and leatherwork families of Banni next door.

A day with herders, without the night

  • For the time-pressed: a morning walking with a Rabari family and their flock in Jawai, or with Bishnoi families south of Jodhpur, gives much of the feeling without a night away.
  • Read more: with the Rabari herders and the Bishnoi villages.

Where we arrange village stays, region by region

Each old kingdom of Rajasthan has its own village life, its own dialect and its own bread. These are the places we know best.

Shekhawati, the painted farming country

The landscape: flat, sandy country of low dunes, thorny scrub and khejri trees, with millet after the rains and mustard flowering yellow in January and February.

  • Village life: families still churn buttermilk by hand, plaster their courtyards with clay and dung, and sleep on the roof in summer.
  • Where we stay: with farming families near Mandawa and Nawalgarh, or at Alsisar, whose fort-palace feels more like a private house than a hotel.
  • Read more: our Shekhawati guide.
Read the Shekhawati guide

Marwar, Bishnoi villages and country forts

Rohet: the family of Thakur Dalpat Singh has held the estate since 1622 and began its village safari in 1988, to Bishnoi homes, Raika camel herders and potters.

  • Khimsar: the fort of 1523 has a dune village about fifteen minutes away, with round cottages modelled on the huts of a Marwari desert hamlet.
  • The Bishnoi: villages south of Jodhpur where blackbuck graze near the doorsteps and families welcome guests for tea.
  • Read more: our Rohet and Khimsar guides.
Read the Rohet guide

The Thar around Jaisalmer

Khuri: quieter dunes and a village of mud houses, our choice for a night with a desert family.

  • Around Sam: herding hamlets near the Sam dunes, best visited at dawn before the camps wake.
  • On the way: Kuldhara, the abandoned Paliwal village, a reminder of how hard desert life has always been.
Read the Jaisalmer guide

Godwar and Jawai, granite hills and Rabari herders

Narlai: an old trading village of carved temples under a granite hill. Rawla Narlai, built in the seventeenth century as a royal hunting lodge, became a hotel in 1996.

  • Jawai: farm lodges and homestays around Bera and the reservoir. Standards and ethics vary widely, so we book only places we have visited.
  • The Rabari: herders in white turbans and heavy silver, who know every leopard's track.
Read the Jawai guide

Mewar, lakes, hills and old estates

Deogarh: the palace of the Chundawat Rawats, once lords of around two hundred villages, still partly the family's home.

  • The countryside: village tanks full of winter birds, the slow metre-gauge train through the Aravallis and farming hamlets in the hills.
  • Around Kumbhalgarh: herding and farming villages below the great wall. See Kumbhalgarh.
Read the Deogarh guide

Dhundhar and Hadoti, close to Jaipur and Bundi

  • Samode: a working village with a painted palace at the top of its street. Step out of the gate into school runs, brass water pots and jalebi frying. See Samode.
  • Around Bundi: farming villages of Hadoti among lakes and green hills after the monsoon. Our Bundi itinerary shows how we fit a village morning in.

A day and a night in a village, hour by hour

This is a winter day with a farming family in Shekhawati. Every village is different, but the rhythm rarely changes.
A mud-walled village house with a thatched roof and a swept earth courtyard in rural Rajasthan
Photo: Wolfgang Sauber, CC BY-SA 4.0, via Wikimedia Commons

Afternoon, arrival

  • Welcome: a glass of water, then sweet tea in the courtyard. Someone will tie a red thread on your wrist or mark your forehead with tilak.
  • Settle in: a short tour of the house, the cattle and the well.

Late afternoon, the fields

  • Walk out: with the men to the fields of wheat and mustard, past the khejri trees and the village pond.
  • Or ride: a camel cart to the edge of the dunes for sunset.

Dusk, the kitchen

  • Cook together: the women of the house show you how to pat bajra rotis by hand and cook them on the chulha.
  • Lamps and bells: the evening aarti at the village temple, and cattle coming home in the dust.

Evening, dinner and stars

  • Eat: rotis with ghee, a dal, a vegetable from the fields and buttermilk, sitting together.
  • After dinner: a fire, stories, perhaps a song, and the roof for stargazing. Villages are asleep by nine.

Dawn, the second morning

  • Wake to: roosters, the hand-mill grinding grain and the clank of a bucket at the well.
  • Join in: milk a buffalo, badly, as we did, then breakfast of parathas and tea before the car collects you.

The farming year, and what you will see

Village life follows the rain. Knowing the calendar tells you what your hosts will be doing when you arrive.

July to September: the rains come, if they come. Farmers sow bajra, pearl millet, with moth and moong beans, and maize in Mewar. Villages are green, busy and muddy.

October and November: the harvest is in, grain dries on the flat roofs and weddings begin. Diwali lights every doorway.

Facts to know
July
Rains come; bajra, moth and moong sown
October
Kharif harvest in, grain drying on roofs
Winter
Wheat, gram and mustard where there is water
January to February
Mustard flowers yellow across Shekhawati
March onwards
Fields empty, herders move further
  • December to February: where a well or tank allows, the winter crop of wheat, gram and mustard grows. The best months for a stay.
  • March: Holi, the harvest of the winter crop and the last cool evenings.
  • April to June: the fields empty, the herders move their animals further for grazing and families wait for the rain. Too hot for most guests.

What you will eat

Village food in Rajasthan is the food of a dry land: millet, lentils, desert beans, milk and ghee. It is simple, and it is some of the best cooking in the state.

Bajra roti: thick millet bread patted by hand and cooked over the fire, eaten with ghee and jaggery in winter.

Ker sangri: the desert berries and the beans of the khejri tree, dried and cooked with spices. Every family has its own recipe.

  • Kadhi and dal: a yoghurt curry thickened with gram flour, and spiced lentils, the everyday dishes of every home.
  • Chaas: salted buttermilk, churned by hand in the morning and drunk with lunch.
  • Rabari milk tea: herding families make rich, sweet tea with fresh milk over a small fire in the fields. A small sip is the polite response even if you don't drink tea.
  • Vegetarian by default: most village homes are vegetarian, and many Bishnoi and Jain households keep strict kitchens. Don't ask for meat or alcohol.
  • Safety: we brief your hosts on bottled water and freshly cooked food. Our Rajasthani food guide explains the dishes.
Local tip
Eat with your right hand, tear the roti with your fingers, and when you have had enough, say so firmly. Village hosts will keep filling your plate until you physically cover it.

What most visitors miss

Drive between Jaipur and Jodhpur and you pass hundreds of villages. These are the details that only show themselves when you stop.

The painted doorways: in many villages, women paint welcome symbols, peacocks and Ganesh on the walls around the door, renewed for Diwali and weddings.

The tanka: a covered rainwater tank in the courtyard that keeps a household alive through the dry months. Ask to see how it is filled.

  • The village pond: the johad or nadi, dug and kept by the community for cattle, washing and birds, often with a shrine on its bank.
  • The sacred grove: many Thar villages protect an oran around a local shrine, where no tree may be cut.
  • The chabutra: the raised platform by the door, or under the village tree, where men sit to discuss the season and settle quarrels.
  • Mandana: the white chalk and red clay patterns women draw on floors and courtyards for festivals, especially around Diwali.
  • The craftsmen: potters, leatherworkers, weavers and smiths often live in their own lanes. A morning with one is a lesson in how the village works.

Crafts you can watch in the villages

Much of what you buy in the city bazaars is made in the villages. A homestay lets you see it made, and buy it from the maker.

Durrie weaving: Bishnoi and other families near Jodhpur weave flat cotton rugs on pit looms in their courtyards.

The potter's wheel: turned by hand or with a stick, for water pots, lamps and the clay cups of chai stalls.

Facts to know
Durries
Flat cotton rugs, Marwar villages
Pottery
Village potters across the state
Embroidery
Rabari, Meghwal and Banni families
Block printing
Bagru and Sanganer near Jaipur
Buying rule
Pay the maker the price asked
  • Embroidery: Rabari women and the Meghwal and Muslim families of Banni in Kutch stitch mirrorwork and fine embroidery by lamplight.
  • Block printing: a family of printers in Bagru, near Jaipur, still prints cotton by hand with carved wooden blocks. See block printing in Bagru.
  • Buy well: our crafts page explains how to tell handwork from machine work.

Comfort, honestly

A village homestay is not a palace, and we never pretend it is. Here is what to expect, so nothing surprises you.

We check every room: we visit the homes we use and check the bed, the bedding and the bathroom before any guest stays.

Bathrooms: usually a private bathroom with a Western toilet in the homes we choose. Hot water may come heated in a bucket.

  • Power: electricity can cut out for an hour or two. Bring a torch and a charged power bank.
  • Sounds: roosters, cattle, temple loudspeakers and the hand-mill at dawn. Bring earplugs if you sleep lightly.
  • Winter nights: cold in the desert and Shekhawati from December to February. Families provide heavy quilts. Bring warm sleepwear.
  • Privacy: you are in a family home. Doors may not lock as a hotel's do, and children will be curious.
  • Want more comfort? Choose a family country house instead, such as Rohet Garh, Rawla Narlai or Deogarh Mahal, and visit a village by day.

Etiquette in a village home

Rajasthani villages are deeply hospitable and fairly conservative. A few courtesies show your hosts the respect they show you.

Greet first: ram ram in the villages, khamma ghani in Marwar and Mewar. Older people are greeted before younger.

Dress modestly: loose clothes covering shoulders and knees for men and women. A scarf is useful for women.

Facts to know
Greeting
Ram ram, or khamma ghani in Marwar
Dress
Shoulders and knees covered
Shoes
Off at the door and the kitchen
Eating
Right hand only
Photos
Always ask first
  • Shoes off: at the door of the house, the kitchen and any shrine.
  • The kitchen is special: enter only when invited, and never in shoes.
  • Women's spaces: in many homes, older women keep their faces veiled before men outside the family. Male guests should let the women of the house approach first.
  • Ask before photographs: especially of women and children, and accept a refusal with a smile.
  • Keep affection private: couples should avoid kissing or holding each other in public.
  • Alcohol: never in a village home unless your hosts offer it. Our etiquette guide has more.

How we keep it fair

A homestay can be a gift to a family or a burden. The difference lies in how it is arranged.

Fair pay, paid directly: the family is paid properly for the room, the food and their time, and the money goes to them, not to a middleman.

Small numbers: one party at a time, so a home never becomes a hotel.

  • Their rules: the family decides what they are happy to share, what they cook and when the day ends.
  • No poverty tourism: we never take guests to stare at hardship or to photograph people as scenery.
  • No handouts: don't give sweets, pens or money to children. It teaches them to ask strangers. If you want to help, ask us about the village school or a cause we know.
  • Buy from makers: if a potter, weaver or embroiderer sells you something, pay the price asked.
  • Don't promise: a photograph posted later, a visit next year, help with a visa. Make only promises you will keep.
  • Read more: our responsible travel page and the journal on sustainable travel.

What to bring, and what to give

Your hosts will not expect a present. A small, thoughtful one is always remembered.

A gift from home: a box of sweets, tea, a picture book of your town or a photograph of your family. Hand it to the head of the house.

Sweets from the bazaar: a box from a good sweet shop on the way is the most Rajasthani gift of all. We stop for one.

  • Photographs: print and send pictures afterwards through us. Families treasure them.
  • For you: a torch, power bank, earplugs, wet wipes, hand sanitiser, a warm layer in winter and slip-on shoes.
  • Leave behind: expensive jewellery, revealing clothes and alcohol.

When to go

The cool months suit both guests and hosts. In the heat, everyone in a village is simply trying to get through the day.

October and November: harvest, weddings and Diwali lamps. Warm days, fresh nights.

December and January: cold nights, bright days, fires in the courtyard and the best stargazing.

Facts to know
Best months
October to March
Most beautiful
January and February, mustard in flower
Coldest nights
December and January
Avoid
April to June heat
Monsoon
July to September, green but muddy
  • February and March: mustard in flower across Shekhawati, and Holi in the villages, joyful and loud.
  • April to June: fierce heat, often above 40°C. We don't recommend village nights.
  • July to September: green fields and full ponds, but rough roads and unpredictable rain. Lovely for day visits in Mewar.
  • Festivals: our best time to visit Rajasthan guide lists the village fairs month by month.

Who will love it, and who won't

A night in a village is the highlight of many journeys. It is also not for everyone, and that is fine.

Repeat visitors

  • Why: you have seen the forts, and you want the country in between.
  • Try: our Village Rajasthan journey, thirteen nights through country houses and farms.

Families with children

  • Why: children make friends across any language barrier within minutes, over a cricket ball or a calf.
  • Plan: one night is plenty for young children. See our family journeys.

Solo travellers

  • Why: a family takes a lone guest in at once. Women travelling alone are often welcomed straight into the kitchen.
  • Read: Rajasthan for solo travellers.

Who should choose a country house instead

  • If you need: guaranteed hot water, a locking door, a bar or a pool, choose a family-run fort or rawla and visit the village by day.
  • If mobility is limited: village lanes are uneven and many homes have steep stairs. Our accessible travel guide can help.

How we arrange a village stay

The best village nights feel effortless. That is because the planning happens weeks before you arrive.

We know the families: we work only with hosts we have visited and stayed with, often for years.

We match you: to the region, the family and the level of comfort that suits you.

  • We brief both sides: your hosts know your diet, your interests and any health needs. You know their house rules.
  • A guide stays close: a local guide who speaks the dialect introduces you, translates and stays nearby, in the village or at a guesthouse.
  • The car is never far: your driver stays in the area, so you can leave at any time without awkwardness.
  • No published prices: after one conversation we send a quote and a day-by-day plan. Start on our plan my journey page.
Local tip
Ask your hosts to teach you one thing: tying a turban, patting a roti, milking the buffalo. Being bad at it, and laughing together, breaks every barrier faster than any translator.

Questions about Rural homestays with families

These are the questions our guests ask before they come. If yours isn't here, a planner in Jaipur will answer it within a day.

Are rural homestays in Rajasthan safe?

Yes, with families we know. We work only with hosts we have visited and stayed with, a local guide stays nearby, and your driver remains in the area so you can leave at any time. Follow the house rules and the usual care with water and food.

What are the bathrooms like in a village homestay?

In the homes we choose, usually a private bathroom with a Western toilet that we have checked ourselves. Hot water may come heated in a bucket rather than from a tap. If you need hotel standards, choose a family-run country fort or rawla instead.

How long should a village stay be?

One or two nights is ideal. One night gives you an evening, a dinner and a dawn. Two nights let you settle in and join the work of the day. We usually place a village stay between two cities on a longer journey.

Can children stay in a village homestay?

Yes, and they often love it most. Children make friends quickly over a cricket ball or a calf. One night is usually enough for young children, and we choose homes with safe courtyards and easy bathrooms.

What should I bring as a gift for my hosts?

Something small and personal: sweets, tea, a picture book of your home town or a photograph of your family. A box from a good Rajasthani sweet shop on the way is always welcome. Don't give money or sweets to children.

Is the food in a village homestay vegetarian?

Usually, yes. Most village homes are vegetarian, and many Bishnoi and Jain families keep strict kitchens. Expect millet rotis, dal, kadhi, ker sangri, ghee and buttermilk. Tell us about any dietary needs and we brief your hosts in advance.

What is the difference between a homestay and a heritage hotel?

A homestay is a room in a family's own home, simple and personal. A heritage hotel such as Rohet Garh or Rawla Narlai is a family-run country fort with hotel comforts, where the owners often still live. Many guests combine both.
Written and checked by our Jaipur team, last updated 2026-10-16.
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